Sarasmilesalot inspired me to start this thread because it's nice to vent about "normies" who don't understand the struggles we go through. And some of these people say things that are so hurtful but it's hard to admonish them because they are so nice, or it's not worth the hassle.
So I will start with the first one... at one point I used my dog as a service dog to help me get out of the house. A person I met at a coffee shop looked at me in surprise. "You don't look disabled..."
Oh, and getting hassled at work, when they needed to make accomodations for my dog, and they didn't want to, the Human Resource manager would say weekly: "Are you over your disability yet? Do you still need your dog? Can't you keep him in the car?"
GRRRR, I say!!